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sip & speak.

founder & host · chicago · 2026 — present@sipandspeak.chi

a language exchange in chicago — one room, a name tag with the language you're learning, and ~80 strangers finding out how much they can already say.

i want to help people connect — and i believe language is the best way to do it.

the whole of Sip & Speak vol 2 packed under the dried-flower ceiling, name tags on
vol 002 — the whole room, name tags on

150+

through the door

~80

per night, average

350

on the email list

002

vols poured · 003 loading

[01] the phrasebook

the story, told the only way this page knows how — one untranslatable word at a time.

[01]

缘分

/yuán fèn/ · mandarin · noun

the quiet pull of fate that brings strangers into each other's lives — you don't find it, you meet it.

i want to help people connect, and i believe language is the best way to do it. you can't small-talk in a language you're learning — you reach for words, you laugh at the misses, you actually listen. sixty percent fluency forces a hundred percent honesty. it's the fastest route i know from stranger to friend.

[02]

人情味

/rén qíng wèi/ · mandarin · noun

literally 'the flavor of human feeling' — the warmth people leave behind in a room.

the format is almost nothing: a bar, a marker, a name tag with your name and the language you're learning. the room sorts itself — spanish in the corner booth, korean by the bar, mandarin over a mahjong table. no curriculum, no levels, no app. just enough structure that nobody has to be brave alone.

[03]

/jeong/ · korean · noun

the bond that grows between people who keep showing up for each other — deeper than affection, slower than love.

vol 1 filled a pub in may. vol 2 packed a bigger room a month later. ~80 people a night, 350 on the email list, and it grew the only way that matters — people bringing the friend they promised to bring. the fastest-growing language exchange in chicago, on zero dollars of marketing.

[04]

一期一会

/i·chi·go i·chi·e/ · japanese · phrase

'one time, one meeting' — this room, these people, tonight, will never assemble exactly this way again.

most people don't need to be fluent. they need a room where trying is the whole point — and a reason to come back next month. vol 3 is pouring soon. the email list gets the date first.

[02] how a night works

no curriculum, no levels — the whole machine is a marker, a name tag and a well-lit bar.

[a] write your name & a languagethe entire onboarding is a marker and a sign at the door.
[b] wear what you're learningthe tag does the opening line for you — 'learning japanese' has never once needed a follow-up.
[c] find your tablecandlelight, prompt cards if you want them, and a conversation that stops being practice.
[d] sipthe other half of the name — courage counts in every language.

[03] on video

the room, on video — shot by the people in it.

[04] the room

two volumes in, shot on the same camera that covers everything i host — big groups having fun win.

next

vol 003 is pouring.

the email list gets the date first — 350 people already on it.